Stop Asking 'What Are Your Strengths and Weaknesses?'—Ask These 5 Smart Interview Questions Instead

Betsy Allen-Manning • April 7, 2025

Stop Asking 'What Are Your Strengths and Weaknesses?' —Ask These 5 Smart Interview Questions Instead

If you're still asking candidates about their biggest strengths and weaknesses, you're not just using an outdated interview tactic—you're potentially sabotaging your company's culture.


In today's rapidly evolving workplace, hiring the right people isn’t just about skills. It’s about behavior, values, productivity style,  and alignment with your company's mission. That’s why modern hiring strategies must focus on more than resumes and rehearsed answers.


Companies that become Destination Workplaces™ go deeper. They use interview questions that assess real-world fit, not just technical ability.


Here are 5 critical areas to evaluate in every interview—and the smart questions to ask.


1. Culture Fit


Hiring for culture fit doesn’t mean hiring people who “think exactly like us.” It means identifying candidates whose values align with your organizational DNA.


Ask This:

👉 “Tell me about a time when your personal values were tested at work. How did you handle it?”

🔑 Why it works: It reveals how the candidate navigates moral gray areas and whether they’ll uphold your core values—even when no one is watching.


2. Growth Desires & Coachability


Every thriving team has employees who are hungry to grow and open to feedback. Stagnation is the enemy of innovation.


Ask This:

👉 “Tell me about a time you received constructive feedback. How did you respond, and what did you do afterward?”

🔑 Why it works: You’ll quickly see who takes ownership of their development—and who gets defensive.


3. Critical Thinking Skills


Today’s AI-driven workplace demands more agility and independent thinking. You need people who don’t just do—they analyze, adapt, contribute, and innovate.


Ask This:

👉 “Describe a time when you had to make a difficult decision with limited information. What was your process?”

🔑 Why it works: This exposes their thought process, risk tolerance, and ability to act under pressure.


4. Productivity & Wellness Alignment


Burnout is real—and smart leaders now recognize the link between well-being and high performance.


Ask This:

👉 “How do you prioritize your workload while maintaining work/life balance?”

🔑 Why it works: It reveals whether the candidate is proactive about boundaries or a burnout risk waiting to happen.


5. Team Player Mentality


No matter how brilliant someone is, if they can’t collaborate, they’ll damage the team dynamic.


Ask This:
👉 “Tell me about a time you had a conflict with a coworker. What was your approach to resolution?”

🔑 Why it works: You’ll gain insight into their emotional intelligence, communication skills, and self-awareness.


🎯 Why This Matters


Hiring someone with all the right skills but none of the right behaviors is like building a house on sand. It won’t last. When you align your hiring process with Destination Workplace™ standards, you create a company where people want to:


✔️ Apply
✔️ Engage
✔️ Contribute
✔️ Promote
✔️ And
stay


That’s how you build a high-performing, values-driven culture that attracts and retains top talent.


🛠️ Next Step: Upgrade Your Interview Process


If you're serious about becoming a Destination Workplace™, it's time to align your entire hiring strategy with a better employee experience.


👉 Want help designing behavioral-based interviews, improving your hiring process, or enhancing your workplace culture?

Let’s chat about how we can support your journey to Destination Workplace™ status.


📍 Visit:www.DestinationWorkplace.com

Creating a winning company culture takes effort, but it's well worth it, and company culture happens to be our area of expertise. We help you become a
Destination Workplace™ so you can attract and retain the best talent in this hyper-competitive marketplace. Contact us to learn about our leadership development, culture development, corporate wellness programs, and more!


The Destination Workplace™ Team


About Betsy: Featured on FOX, CBS, NBC, and ABC, Betsy Allen-Manning is a leadership keynote speaker, workplace culture expert, and best-selling author who helps executives and HR leaders strengthen employee engagement, improve retention, and prepare for the future of work. Betsy’s thought leadership and original research in the National Workplace Trends Study and the Destination Workplace™ framework equips organizations with data-driven strategies to build cultures where people apply, engage, contribute, and stay. She is also the founder of an award-winning company known for providing top leadership training in Dallas, and is recognized for advancing leadership excellence and driving workplace culture transformations worldwide.

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